When in doubt, add more rope.
I have the most uncooperative boobs when it comes to boobie bondage. They’re teardrop shaped, and small, so Master spends forever tying them up… and the rope simply slides down and pops off.
Which is a shame because I LOVE boobie bondage something awful. :-(
He still tries though, yanking me around by my tit, wrapping and tying and wrapping and tying, until, finally, some hundred feet of rope later, my boobs are subdued into submission. Provided that I don’t move or breathe, that is. ;-)
Look at the ridiculous amount of rope he used. Even with all that it was falling off before we were done.
Several months ago we received a gift in the mail from Mandy and her Husband/Dom. They sent us the infamous cheesegrater paddle.
It’s sat in the closet for a long time. I was am afraid of it. It’s skeery looking. And sharp. And BIG.
And I’m a pussy. So you know, I avoided it. Actually I was avoiding everything painful there for a while, but since I (thought I) was “back” and embracing pain again, Master felt it was high time to try this paddle out.
So he did. And so.. it hurts. It (surprise surprise) grates your ass cheeks!
This is a light spanking. Nevertheless, I was complaining that he was hitting too hard!
I would like to call a truce to this mailing of the painful stuff. I will stop if you will stop. ;-)
My ass feels like it’s on fire actually. Not in that deep-tissue pain that a spanking usually brings on, but that “oh man, I feel like I just went ten rounds with a cheesegrater” way. It just burns, like a papercut. A million papercuts.
But then there was some really, really awesome fucking, and some nipple tweaking and some bullet vibing and some dirty talk and lots o’ gasms…
Good times, my friends, good times.
~cunt
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Saturday January 26th, 2008 3:40pm
i like how you can see the word “slave” carved on your right tit in the second photo. i think that i’d be afraid of that scary looking thing too! But i have to admit, your butt looks nice pinked up!
Good times indeed!
–toy
The letters need to be redone. I just don’t want to have it done..lol
That thing is scary!!!! I would hide from it. Great pics though!!!
Don’t be surprised to find it stuck under your door someday. ;-)
I have teardrop shaped tits too and the ropes always slid off until Master learned shibari. There is a harness called the cupcake harness that makes your boobs look like the tops of cupcakes when they are all done. It’s fabulous and right up your alley. I’ll see if Master can get some pictures of it next time he does one and link ya!
Link me up!! ;-)
Hey, I have that tit bondage problem too. I thought I was just made wrong. Oh, the body issues — they are deep & far reaching.
Apperantly we aren’t using the right rope for our uncooperative boobs. All this time I’ve blamed the boos, when in actuality, it was the rope!
Have you tried hemp? We haven’t. We’re cheap.
you know.. BP sometimes has similar problems with rope and my breasts.. if you want *tight* breast bondage (you know, makes it go purple, yadda yadda) then the best thing we’ve found is bandages.. they grip against each other very well (well they would, wouldn’t they!) so you don’t get the same sliding problem.
I am ignoring all references to the cheesegrater paddle. nup. its not even there. :D
keth
xx
Bandages like ace bandages or like the vet wrap that’s all sticky and pretty colored? :D
Oh hey! I never got around to mailing your xmas card. It just kept getting closer and closer to being too late until I was finally like “oh feck it all!” So, sorry about that! I can make up for it by sending you this paddle though! :D :D :D
errrr thats okay. i did the same thing with your christmas card last year. see. no need for paddles!!! nup! no way!! *shakes head*..
bandages: more this kind of thing: http://www.care-house.co.uk/product-images/Bandages.jpg – the really old fashioned kind of bandages. if you can still get them, even. they’re slightly elasticated, but only slightly.
good luck with it though!!
keth
xx
p.s. don’tyoudaresendmethatpaddleoriwon’tsendyouanotherxmascardeveragain!!!!
p.s. sent you an email showing you bandages and hemp rope on me. xx
Put two of the wide rubber bands on at the base of the tit and then wrap the rope. That will give the rope some traction. A small dia. rubber hose works well also.
Keep trying and you will find something that works for you.
We often have the same issue with the rubber bands too. They roll off the end of my boob! If I hurry and get a bunch of them on, they’ll stay but even then it’s a real tentative stay. They’ll roll off with too much movement or torture.
I adore breast bondage. Love the rope. Hubby, not so much (he appreciates my efforts but its not his thing). I’ve figured out a nice way to do breast harness that you can then tighten it up after in a way that doesn’t let the boobies slip out so much. I’ve got photos from the last time I did it myself and would be happy to try to explain if you’d be interested (Or your Sir :) ).
Yes please! Any ideas would be much appreciated. :-)
Well I find making a ‘bra like’ foundation to be best. I use a 50′ length of rope for this tie (but I’m plus sized, so you might be able to get away with a little less, but I find having extra rope=extra tight boobies).
First you’ll want to double the rope, and run the ends through the middle around your torso snuggly (I hope that bit made sense let me know if not) and then run several tight coils going around the torso right under the breasts (and lining the coils so they lay flat on your skin if possible) with both ends going together.
Stop in between the breasts and do a little loop and pull through deal (or a knot, whatever) here and then take the ends and pull one up over each shoulder (like a bra strap kinda). In back pull the ends through your torso ropes and then *back* over your shoulders going under the torso ropes on the outside of your boobies. Pull snug, perhaps lean forward to get all breast tissue inside the ‘triangle’. At this point you can take the ends and run them from the different points of tension of rope around your breasts, tightening it up with every threading. I like to go back from where you’d end up after making the ‘bra’ to the middle vertical ropes and pulling them snug.
Gosh this doesn’t seem so complicated when I *do* it. I have a photo I wouldn’t mind sharing that might help, but I’m not quite so comfortable sharing it with everyone. So please email me if you’d be interested. And I’m sure that next time I do this I could take a couple photos that would clarify *greatly* if it would be helpful :)
Ropes are fun for me. Let me give you a pointer or two first make a loop that goes over the shoulder and under the breast and knot it take the rope across the back looping the other breast circle it tight and go back over the shoulder lifting breast and behind neck and back down and repeat on first breast this gives a tight fit and won’t come loose when playing and looks awesome. Hope this helps and tighter is better. check first two blog photos at http://www.slavebootsie.blogspot.com
Master to slave bootsie
We’ve tried that figure 8 tie and it’s just as slippery as anything else we do. I’m not sure I’m following the other tie, and in the picture she has a shirt on so it’s hard to see how the rope is arranged. Hmm… maybe you’ll have to do it again on her and take lots of pictures to post! ;-)
I am so excited to see that My project worked! Please let Me know if it holds up to the use. In addition to the epoxy, I put those little screws into the wood hoping that it would last. Those graters will leave a mark for sure, when I was testing them I cut my palm open right in the middle of the store (not with a grater I used for your gift). Further testing on the girl assured Me that those were the right choice.
Oh I can promise you that those graters aren’t going anywhere!
I’m just so.. soo… soooo thankful that you made that for us. So profoundly grateful. I do hope Mandy has one of her own, yes? ;-)
For tight boob bondage on the smaller endowed try different materials. Bondage rope works well, and rubber (latex) tubing works well, just be careful not to make it too tight. Leather works great also -it ‘clings’ more, and is usually smaller in diameter. Go to the Home Depot bondage section and buy a number of different sizes and materials with which to experiment. What you can’t find there you can always get online – http://www.leathercordusa.com/ (look up ‘latigo lace’).
Smaller diameter has more bite than larger diameter, but can do more harm so you have to experiment with how long to keep on and the proper tension.
For good bondage fun, tightly tie around the base of each tit with one of the above materials with more ‘bite’ in it, running four to five loops tightly at the base of the boobi & tie off. This will give you a ‘cupcake’ look, but it’s not the cupcake harness luna was talking about.
Then you can use larger diameter material to create the look you want. Rope Bra, over and under, figure of eight harness, etc.
I have photos, let me know if you are interested.
(Great site, read you every day)
We have tried leather lace and had zero luck with that. But maybe it wasn’t the right kind. We’ve also used a variety of rope sizes and types, and while some DO work better than others, nothing (so far) has been profoundly successful.
We’ve not tried rubber or latex though. And by bondage rope, do you mean hemp? We also haven’t had any of that.
I know Master would appreciate any photos that you’d be willing to share. So would I because quite often his frustration at my uncooperative tits is taken out on my ass! ;-)
This is pretty basic and I’ve never done it (disclaimer!) but Wiki:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breast_bondage
Good ol wikipedia! Thanks!
i have to say the first thing i thought when i saw those pics was, “no wonder its slipping! look at the rope!”
i have never had rope like that stay on me in any way shape or form. nylon rope (the shiny stuff) or “soft” rope just slides off me like water off a duck.
hemp on the other hand, stays put like velcro. i would suggest getting thyself over to twistedmonk.com, and getting just 10 feet of the plain hemp to try it out. i promise the difference in phenomenal. (and it feels so awesome. can’t help it. i’m a hemp rope lover.)
also, the shibari tie called “pearls” only uses a couple of passes around your body, a couple over your breasts, and a couple under, and then the middle is cinched up. depending on how tight you do the ties, you can put some serious squeeze on those boobies.
but seriously, get some hemp. nylon will always slide.
~melly
I know this rope sucks, it’s just that we have tried with other ropes (sizes and types) and nothing has ever worked much better than the other. So now it’s just a reach-in-and-grab-some-rope thing.
Although, we have not tried hemp. I hear a lot of good things about twistedmonk.. but I also think it’s ridiculously pricey. If you know of any other cheaper places, I’d be game to try it!
You know I’m a cheap whore. ;-)
i know you can usually get hemprope untreated either in bulk (like on ebay) or at like farm supply stores, or something. i’ll see what i can dig up for you.. BUT i can tellyou, it’s a dollar a foot (roughly) and i swear, it’s worth every penny. you wil get a TON of use out of this stuff. it just doesn’t quit.
~melly
okay.
but you can buy bulk hemp rope anywhere just by typing in “hemp rope” or “manila rope” into your google engine. tons and tons of it. literally. this place here is really cheap. 1200 feet for like, 40 dollars (you have to include shipping too. though)
http://www.lightsonretail.com/Merchant/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=VIDEO-LIGHTING&Product_Code=M0916D1200&Category_Code=Rope
but it definitely LOOKS cheap.
this site
http://www.knotandrope.com/manilla.htm
looks a whole lot better,and they do have a whipping service (doesnt that sound funny? *grin*) for whipping the ends. of all the cut-and-buy rope places i’ve seen on the first few pages of my search, this place looks pretty reputable, so i’d go with them. not sure about shipping costs, but 1/4 inch hemp (manila) is like 5 cents a foot. so, youre saving 80% off monk’s price for His bondage rope.
however, i will note that the rope isn’t conditioned. you can do that yourself though, if you want, and it isn’t necessary. though i like it better conditioned, and the hemp will be prickly and hair the first several times you use it if it isn’t conditioned.
you will probably also need to wash it,and pick through it for burs or other debris, and make sure of weak spots. and if you dont’ make use of their service, you’ll need to whip/knot whatever the ends so they don’t un ravel.
they spend hours and hours doing that stuff,and it’s totally worth the cost (to me) that i dont’ have to spend hours and hours with tons of rope to make sure i have thirty continuous feet that is bug and bur free, and i don’t have to worry about spiders jumping out at me, or coming out of the rope when it’s on me *gah!!*
i really love monk’s rope because the quality is impeccable, and the stuff is stellar in the performance category, and i know it lasts a REALLY long time. i’ve had my monk rope (most of it 6mm, though i do have some 4 mm) for quite a while, and it’s been through some tough stuff. and it’s still amazing. i just can’t help but plug for him. especially when they do so much for the kink community anyhow. (being in the active community has made me more conscious of helping out kinksters as opposed to vendors who’d probably not sell to you if they knew it was going up between your bits or around your tits. but meh. that’s my issue, not yours.)
i like that you can get it in pretty colors like statuatory grape (isn’t that hilarious?) and pretty kitty pink, though i’m fond of bridgett blue. my fave, totally… colored rope you can also do yourself with regular dye, too, though, so that’s an option available to ya.
if you’re gonna buy it yourself, and deal with it, though, it’s easily done. you can find it in a bazillion places online, that one up there i found in like, five seconds. i bet your local farm supply store or horse store sells some, too. just ask if they have hemp rope.
*HUGS!*
~melly
that thing looks absolutely terrifying!
It is. You want it? :P
hell no!!
That cheesegrater thingie is going to give me nightmares!
Oh, as for the breast bondage – you might try better rope. That thin nylon is slippery as hell. We tried it at first but quickly upgraded to better rope. Hemp is best (unless you have an allergy like me, and then jute works well too). I recommend Twisted Monk as a source for all things rope – that’s where we get ours.
lol.. everyone keeps telling me to go to twistedmonk! He’s just so expensive. I’m cheap. Where else can I get it? :D
You’re such a painslut.
I’d love to see you knotted with a canine.
I bet that terrifies and disgusts you too.
Pain beyond pain. You’re such a slut.
You would love it.
Terrifies and disgusts just about sums that right up! ;-)
Slut.. yes.. that is on my resume.