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	<description>The trials and tribulations of my life as a slave.</description>
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		<title>By: doubleknot</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42512</link>
		<dc:creator>doubleknot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 03:02:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very cool.  Just, 
very, very cool.
[rq=1419099,0,blog][/rq]&lt;a href=&quot;http://doubleknot.wordpress.com/2009/12/03/the-bitter-fruit-of-disobedience/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Bitter Fruit of Disobedience&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very cool.  Just,<br />
very, very cool.<br />
[rq=1419099,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://doubleknot.wordpress.com/2009/12/03/the-bitter-fruit-of-disobedience/" rel="nofollow">The Bitter Fruit of Disobedience</a></p>
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		<title>By: Sir's pet</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42505</link>
		<dc:creator>Sir's pet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 01:47:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>so absolute! so perfect! i&#039;m so glad that the two of you found this peace, this path, this life.
[rq=1410551,0,blog][/rq]&lt;a href=&quot;http://tryingnottofall.blogspot.com/2009/12/full-moon-gorgeous.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Full moon! gorgeous&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so absolute! so perfect! i&#8217;m so glad that the two of you found this peace, this path, this life.<br />
[rq=1410551,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://tryingnottofall.blogspot.com/2009/12/full-moon-gorgeous.html" rel="nofollow">Full moon! gorgeous</a></p>
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		<title>By: Lynnsey</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42502</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynnsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 22:21:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kaya, you&#039;re such an awesome writer who kicks ass at expressing your words and thoughts. You should become professional, hun. 

I can understand what you mean about near misses in a relationship. I had that happened in my own relationship with my SO, and it&#039;s made me grateful that what caused us to break up didn&#039;t happen...but made me more appreciative that I lucked out as he did.
[rq=1409416,0,blog][/rq]&lt;a href=&quot;http://lynn82md.livejournal.com/527.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Welcome to my Journal!&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kaya, you&#8217;re such an awesome writer who kicks ass at expressing your words and thoughts. You should become professional, hun. </p>
<p>I can understand what you mean about near misses in a relationship. I had that happened in my own relationship with my SO, and it&#8217;s made me grateful that what caused us to break up didn&#8217;t happen&#8230;but made me more appreciative that I lucked out as he did.<br />
[rq=1409416,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://lynn82md.livejournal.com/527.html" rel="nofollow">Welcome to my Journal!</a></p>
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		<title>By: itswhoiam</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42500</link>
		<dc:creator>itswhoiam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 18:45:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>remarkably well said...you make me smile, you make me tear up sometimes and i am so incredibly happy for you and your family.  a happy holiday season to you all!
[rq=1408183,0,blog][/rq]&lt;a href=&quot;http://itswhoiam.wordpress.com/2009/11/30/the-flue-the-flue/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;the flue the flue&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>remarkably well said&#8230;you make me smile, you make me tear up sometimes and i am so incredibly happy for you and your family.  a happy holiday season to you all!<br />
[rq=1408183,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://itswhoiam.wordpress.com/2009/11/30/the-flue-the-flue/" rel="nofollow">the flue the flue</a></p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42498</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 15:18:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kaya, I am not sure I have ever commented here before. But...&quot;It was gifting each other with implicit faith.&quot; 

That&#039;s exactly it. We went through a separation and near divorce in the midst of our 25 yr marriage. That stepping back, REAL self assessment, and deciding to come back to each other eyes and hearts wide open has made us a different couple. I am also grateful for all of it. For us, without tearing it down, we never would have rebuilt.
[rq=1406614,0,blog][/rq]&lt;a href=&quot;http://findingsara.wordpress.com/2009/12/05/grateful-for-the-years/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Grateful For The Years&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kaya, I am not sure I have ever commented here before. But&#8230;&#8221;It was gifting each other with implicit faith.&#8221; </p>
<p>That&#8217;s exactly it. We went through a separation and near divorce in the midst of our 25 yr marriage. That stepping back, REAL self assessment, and deciding to come back to each other eyes and hearts wide open has made us a different couple. I am also grateful for all of it. For us, without tearing it down, we never would have rebuilt.<br />
[rq=1406614,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://findingsara.wordpress.com/2009/12/05/grateful-for-the-years/" rel="nofollow">Grateful For The Years</a></p>
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		<title>By: kitts</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42497</link>
		<dc:creator>kitts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 10:35:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I stalked you on fetlife this morning and you mentioned something about being eternally grateful for reading other people&#039;s writing about mistakes they&#039;ve made and how they got round them...

Kaya... Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I stalked you on fetlife this morning and you mentioned something about being eternally grateful for reading other people&#8217;s writing about mistakes they&#8217;ve made and how they got round them&#8230;</p>
<p>Kaya&#8230; Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: V</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42492</link>
		<dc:creator>V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 05:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kaya, I&#039;m a lurker of a few years who&#039;s never commented here before, but I had to say that this was just beautiful and that you have a genuine gift for writing.  Thank you for sharing it with us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kaya, I&#8217;m a lurker of a few years who&#8217;s never commented here before, but I had to say that this was just beautiful and that you have a genuine gift for writing.  Thank you for sharing it with us.</p>
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		<title>By: nilla</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42477</link>
		<dc:creator>nilla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 18:05:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I too remember...I was a neewbie to your site, newbie to learning about &#039;the life&#039;..and i already adored your writing...so open,so honest, and truly informative to the inner workings of a strong, submissive, capable woman. I so hurt for you then...now, I&#039;m so happy for you that I could just ...burst! Kaya, you&#039;re one in a million, hon. Thanks. You are a gift to us all.

nilla
[rq=1397879,0,blog][/rq]&lt;a href=&quot;http://vanillamom.wordpress.com/2009/12/04/fff-124-the-trip/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;FFF 12/4 The Trip&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I too remember&#8230;I was a neewbie to your site, newbie to learning about &#8216;the life&#8217;..and i already adored your writing&#8230;so open,so honest, and truly informative to the inner workings of a strong, submissive, capable woman. I so hurt for you then&#8230;now, I&#8217;m so happy for you that I could just &#8230;burst! Kaya, you&#8217;re one in a million, hon. Thanks. You are a gift to us all.</p>
<p>nilla<br />
[rq=1397879,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://vanillamom.wordpress.com/2009/12/04/fff-124-the-trip/" rel="nofollow">FFF 12/4 The Trip</a></p>
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		<title>By: laani</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42476</link>
		<dc:creator>laani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 17:38:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, I remember that time, was just thinking of it actually, tho I didn&#039;t remember that it was this time last year.
I&#039;m so glad you 2 were able to work it out, and to even become better partners for each other for it. 
:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, I remember that time, was just thinking of it actually, tho I didn&#8217;t remember that it was this time last year.<br />
I&#8217;m so glad you 2 were able to work it out, and to even become better partners for each other for it.<br />
:)</p>
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		<title>By: SeekerofWisdom</title>
		<link>http://underhishand.com/what-a-difference-a-year-makes#comment-42475</link>
		<dc:creator>SeekerofWisdom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 15:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OH, wow. Beautiful. Thank you.
[rq=1396045,0,blog][/rq]&lt;a href=&quot;http://seekerofwisdm.blogspot.com/2009/07/strengthening-solution.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;strengthening solution&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OH, wow. Beautiful. Thank you.<br />
[rq=1396045,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://seekerofwisdm.blogspot.com/2009/07/strengthening-solution.html" rel="nofollow">strengthening solution</a></p>
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