Comments on: The questions are diamonds you hold in the light. Study a lifetime and you see different colors from the same jewel.” http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d The trials and tribulations of my life as a slave. Thu, 24 May 2012 05:46:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: slave_c http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3530 slave_c Tue, 25 Mar 2008 04:41:33 +0000 http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3530 i do have a question for you and a rather important one (in my selfish mind). ::grin:: Were you in a Master/slave dynamic when your children were young? How did you manage to bring them up in a D/s household, yet still keep them far far away from it? i am a slave and have a 3 year old son. Although Master and i have decided not to move in with each other, (to "protect" my son from BDSM- neither of us believe that we should tell him who to be) i am rather curious as to how it can be done. How can you show your Master that you are His without bringing attention to it? How do you get away from the kids (when they are smaller)to do scenes and such? i suppose what i am really asking is how do you keep the dynamic strong while keeping it hidden? Thanks! Btw- i love your blog...i only found it about a month ago and have already devoured your past entries! i do have a question for you and a rather important one (in my selfish mind). ::grin:: Were you in a Master/slave dynamic when your children were young? How did you manage to bring them up in a D/s household, yet still keep them far far away from it? i am a slave and have a 3 year old son. Although Master and i have decided not to move in with each other, (to “protect” my son from BDSM- neither of us believe that we should tell him who to be) i am rather curious as to how it can be done. How can you show your Master that you are His without bringing attention to it? How do you get away from the kids (when they are smaller)to do scenes and such? i suppose what i am really asking is how do you keep the dynamic strong while keeping it hidden? Thanks! Btw- i love your blog…i only found it about a month ago and have already devoured your past entries!

]]> By: kandyecaned http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3508 kandyecaned Fri, 21 Mar 2008 13:47:31 +0000 http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3508 That is the most honest, and completely logical answer to the Master or kids answer I've ever seen. It makes perfect sense as well. This is the thing that sets you apart from the others, and it's why you are so trusted and loved. We may not always agree with your thoughts or ideas, but we respect that you live the lifestlyle the way it fits for you and by your truths. That is the most honest, and completely logical answer to the Master or kids answer I’ve ever seen. It makes perfect sense as well.

This is the thing that sets you apart from the others, and it’s why you are so trusted and loved. We may not always agree with your thoughts or ideas, but we respect that you live the lifestlyle the way it fits for you and by your truths.

]]> By: Mat's pet http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3505 Mat's pet Fri, 21 Mar 2008 08:03:47 +0000 http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3505 If it is not too much to ask, why do you have difficulty kissing your Master? If it is not too much to ask, why do you have difficulty kissing your Master?

]]> By: SixThreeFive http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3501 SixThreeFive Thu, 20 Mar 2008 21:20:29 +0000 http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3501 Hmm.... I think the tongue-kissing thing I'll always have trouble with. For me, it's just like "making love" - it's too emotional, too intimate, too naked and vulnerable... there's simply too much emotion and the only way I can handle it is by crying (softly, usually). It's the emotional equalent of someone continuing to touch your clit after a good, hard orgasm. It's simply Too Much. Sometimes I wish I could... :-/ It's supposed to move mountains and crap, and I want to feel that... I just don't. It's just ... raw, to me. In a beautiful way. Hmm…. I think the tongue-kissing thing I’ll always have trouble with. For me, it’s just like “making love” – it’s too emotional, too intimate, too naked and vulnerable… there’s simply too much emotion and the only way I can handle it is by crying (softly, usually).

It’s the emotional equalent of someone continuing to touch your clit after a good, hard orgasm. It’s simply Too Much.

Sometimes I wish I could… :-/ It’s supposed to move mountains and crap, and I want to feel that… I just don’t. It’s just … raw, to me. In a beautiful way.

]]> By: penguinskitty http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3497 penguinskitty Thu, 20 Mar 2008 18:58:05 +0000 http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3497 I actually went to a presentation at school called "Can I Kiss You?" and it was about the importance of asking before doing something. The presenter really made it sound like a hot idea. I actually went to a presentation at school called “Can I Kiss You?” and it was about the importance of asking before doing something. The presenter really made it sound like a hot idea.

]]> By: Kitten http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3494 Kitten Thu, 20 Mar 2008 17:45:33 +0000 http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3494 When Master and I were a new couple, I was still so easily triggered that it was like "I'm going to touch your backside now. I'm going to move my hand to your vaginal area now... I'm going to kiss you now... " Tiny little chunks of information about what he was about to do to keep me at ease and OK with everything. It did get better. Now nearly 7 years later, I can deal with the sneak attack kiss, but 3 years ago, I couldn't have. When Master and I were a new couple, I was still so easily triggered that it was like “I’m going to touch your backside now. I’m going to move my hand to your vaginal area now… I’m going to kiss you now… ”
Tiny little chunks of information about what he was about to do to keep me at ease and OK with everything. It did get better. Now nearly 7 years later, I can deal with the sneak attack kiss, but 3 years ago, I couldn’t have.

]]> By: TQM http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3493 TQM Thu, 20 Mar 2008 17:13:14 +0000 http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3493 <i>“I’m going to kiss you now.”</i> That doesn't sound unromantic at all...I say that to my pet all the time, just to watch that little quiver of anticipation she gets right before I do so. “I’m going to kiss you now.”

That doesn’t sound unromantic at all…I say that to my pet all the time, just to watch that little quiver of anticipation she gets right before I do so.

]]> By: Paul http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3492 Paul Thu, 20 Mar 2008 16:12:49 +0000 http://underhishand.com/the-questions-are-diamonds-you-hold-in-the-light-study-a-lifetime-and-you-see-different-colors-from-the-same-jewel%e2%80%9d#comment-3492 The questions are diamonds. Kaya, your answers are fascinating, thank you dear girl. I still read your every post. Warm hugs, Paul. The questions are diamonds.
Kaya, your answers are fascinating, thank you dear girl.
I still read your every post.
Warm hugs,
Paul.

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