Comments on: The Fun They Had http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had The trials and tribulations of my life as a slave. Sun, 12 Feb 2012 07:08:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: DL's toy http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-11090 DL's toy Sat, 07 Feb 2009 14:40:38 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-11090 ps- just out of curiosity, was anything, ohh, like bengay or some other not nice substance (used as an antisepsis, of course) smothered all over your torn up chest? ps- just out of curiosity, was anything, ohh, like bengay or some other not nice substance (used as an antisepsis, of course) smothered all over your torn up chest?

]]> By: DL's toy http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-11089 DL's toy Sat, 07 Feb 2009 14:39:28 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-11089 Oh, you totally got whipped! It looks good on you! Yay!!!!!! You're back in the groove, you pleased, and it hurts to move: what could be better? Oh, you totally got whipped!

It looks good on you! Yay!!!!!!

You’re back in the groove, you pleased, and it hurts to move: what could be better?

]]> By: Theresa http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-10989 Theresa Tue, 03 Feb 2009 21:20:11 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-10989 inside the tags that show each picture.. at the end of each link after the / do border="0" and those borders go away. example: (this is from your page source and its your vibereview link/picture) <a href="http://www.vibereview.com?minion=DHE" rel="nofollow"></a><a href="http://www.vibereview.com" rel="nofollow">Sex Toys @ VibeReview!</a> to edit the blue box out.. fix this add border="0" after the height="240" .. blue box goes bibi :) inside the tags that show each picture.. at the end of each link after the / do border=”0″ and those borders go away.

example: (this is from your page source and its your vibereview link/picture)

Sex Toys @ VibeReview!

to edit the blue box out.. fix this add border=”0″ after the height=”240″ .. blue box goes bibi :)

]]> By: kaya http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-10987 kaya Tue, 03 Feb 2009 20:01:55 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-10987 It was clipped over the curtain rod and I guess the tension was too much. Plus, it was a plastic clothespin and they snap a lot easier than a wooden one. It was clipped over the curtain rod and I guess the tension was too much. Plus, it was a plastic clothespin and they snap a lot easier than a wooden one.

]]> By: kaya http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-10986 kaya Tue, 03 Feb 2009 20:00:49 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-10986 Sure! Fix me up. :D Sure! Fix me up. :D

]]> By: kaya http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-10985 kaya Tue, 03 Feb 2009 19:59:29 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-10985 I have jealous moments. It's not being jealous that is destructive -it's how you act on. I cannot control having the emotion. I cannot control HIM (or what he chooses to do with other people). I *can* control how I let what I'm feeling affect me and those around me. Some of how I deal with it is moving out the 'me-me-me' spot. I don't look at him with someone else and think "but what about me? What about MY aftercare and what about MY playtime, etc. etc." I try and keep my focus on the ever-popular question of is He pleased? Is HE happy playing. Is HE enjoying the connection, the energy flow, the interaction. How can I best serve HIM right now. Sometimes, the answer to that last question is to step back, put myself on the backburner and let someone else shine. I will say though, that Master is very, very, VERY good about facing jealousy head-on. He makes sure to do things like take my face in his hands and make intimate eye contact with me, reassure me with words of how much he loves me/wants me, etc., will ask me where I'm at emotion-wise and if I'm comfortable with the other person, especially directly prior to and directly after playing with another. My being comfortable is not a veto. It's just information that he's asking for. And I'm honest about it. Sometimes I am comfortable, sometimes I'm not. If I am then I include her as an extension of my 'service' to Him. It then becomes "is HE happy playing with HER. Are THEY enjoying this. How can I serve THEM right now". That sort of thing. I have some mantras that I mentally recite when jealousy is getting the best of me. The most oft repeated one is this: I am his toy - He is not mine. Beyond that, jealousy can be just another form of humiliation if you twist it just right. And if you're a humiliation kind of masochist? Use it the next time you masturbate. Orgasm to those feelings. Before long, you just might be trying to find other people for him to play with so you can feel it again. ;-) I have jealous moments. It’s not being jealous that is destructive -it’s how you act on. I cannot control having the emotion. I cannot control HIM (or what he chooses to do with other people). I *can* control how I let what I’m feeling affect me and those around me.

Some of how I deal with it is moving out the ‘me-me-me’ spot. I don’t look at him with someone else and think “but what about me? What about MY aftercare and what about MY playtime, etc. etc.” I try and keep my focus on the ever-popular question of is He pleased? Is HE happy playing. Is HE enjoying the connection, the energy flow, the interaction. How can I best serve HIM right now.

Sometimes, the answer to that last question is to step back, put myself on the backburner and let someone else shine.

I will say though, that Master is very, very, VERY good about facing jealousy head-on. He makes sure to do things like take my face in his hands and make intimate eye contact with me, reassure me with words of how much he loves me/wants me, etc., will ask me where I’m at emotion-wise and if I’m comfortable with the other person, especially directly prior to and directly after playing with another.

My being comfortable is not a veto. It’s just information that he’s asking for. And I’m honest about it. Sometimes I am comfortable, sometimes I’m not. If I am then I include her as an extension of my ‘service’ to Him. It then becomes “is HE happy playing with HER. Are THEY enjoying this. How can I serve THEM right now”.

That sort of thing.

I have some mantras that I mentally recite when jealousy is getting the best of me. The most oft repeated one is this: I am his toy – He is not mine.

Beyond that, jealousy can be just another form of humiliation if you twist it just right. And if you’re a humiliation kind of masochist? Use it the next time you masturbate. Orgasm to those feelings. Before long, you just might be trying to find other people for him to play with so you can feel it again. ;-)

]]> By: sangliss http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-10984 sangliss Tue, 03 Feb 2009 17:08:14 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-10984 Am glad you guys had a great time - weekend without kiddos is almost always a blessing! Am glad you guys had a great time – weekend without kiddos is almost always a blessing!

]]> By: lee holloway http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-10983 lee holloway Tue, 03 Feb 2009 14:33:14 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-10983 This is awesome! But I have a question -- what made the clothespin snap in such a dramatic way? It was a weekend for play here, too. :) This is awesome! But I have a question — what made the clothespin snap in such a dramatic way?

It was a weekend for play here, too. :)

]]> By: Melen's rayne http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-10980 Melen's rayne Tue, 03 Feb 2009 12:16:14 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-10980 Yumm. Totally not fair. *nods emphatically* *whispers* I got to play too! Not like that! But fun was had! Yumm. Totally not fair. *nods emphatically*

*whispers* I got to play too! Not like that! But fun was had!

]]> By: Dr_BuzzCzar http://underhishand.com/the-fun-they-had#comment-10979 Dr_BuzzCzar Tue, 03 Feb 2009 02:19:42 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=2428#comment-10979 Me either. Me either.

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