Q&A-#?
You said about things/facts/evidence the kids know or not, but i just wonder how do you title each other in their presence? Are there some times when D/s utterance slip out, just unconsciously…
[...] Or you are just so skilled in the switching of the two speech parterns that it means no problem for you in whatever moment?
It is not that I am skilled. (Skilz. I has none.) It’s that I am not in the habit of using those honorifics. It’s just the opposite in fact. When it should be appropriate for me to refer to him as Master or Sir, I’ll “slip” and call him Babe..lol.
That is probably not his most shining moment at a public bdsm function. ;-)
Do you think it will be hard to go from being vanilla-ish to cunt-in-a-cage? would it have been easier to go from degrading masochistic to cunt-in-a-cage?
Yes and yes. A person gets used to a certain lifestyle, a certain manner of treatment- and comes to expect it. At one time I was very much comfortable with being degraded and humiliated, but now, when it seems to come out of the blue, I get my little feelings hurt (and do the whole pouty lower lip and everything). It will be that he’s almost going to have to start the process over and ease me back into it.
But we knew that. Part of the reason why he lightened up in the first place was because I wasn’t functioning well enough with the vanilla things that I still have to do. So he’s aware of the headspace and the need to create, or destroy, the environment that fosters said headspace.
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I am done with questions. Thank you for playing along. :-)
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Wednesday March 18th, 2009 5:47am
I’ve no where else where I dare say this, so I’m just gonna yell it out here:
CAN’T IT BE FIVE PM ALREADY?! She’s 14.25 CET and I’m WAITING to make a phonecall about two BEAUTIFUL cats! Waiting is AWFUL. I hate waiting. Especially for cats. Pretty, pretty ragdolls that with some luck will move in with us!
I feel like I should be climbing the walls.
Must. Find. Something. To. Do. Argh.
lol.. get pictures when you can!
I’ll share this: http://www.blocket.se/vi/20366448.htm?ca=23_8_s
It’s the top two cats, Berlioz and Miss Dior. I’m gonna meet them on saturday! Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
Thank you Kaya. Just because had read in the blog how you refer to everyone and so had that doubt.
Your life is so real and full!