Q&A-2
What trait/quality/characteritic in your youngest are you the most proud of?
I don’t talk a whole lot about B-man. I definitely have a harder time relating to him than I do the girls. Since the day he was born, it has always been that he seems to get lost behind the chaotic-ness that is Jes and Am.
B-man is just a relatively quiet, easy-going kid. He’s very funny though. Quick-witted, sarcastic– just funny.
I’d say I admire his tenacity more than anything. At one time I would have said he was just stubborn or persistent, but it’s not that negative. He’s tenacious, and when he finds the right things to work on, he’s really good at it. Just ask him once if pot should be legal, I dare ya. 
I’m curious as to whether you think your kids have any ideas about the lifestyle you live, other than that you bring your Master his food, drinks, etc. and are generally submissive to him. Do you think any of them are aware of your actual D/s lifestyle?
I think they are aware of quite a bit of it. But I think we have done a successful job of showing them that who we are as a couple is not limited to D/s. It’s not him walking around giving orders and me meekly following them. It’s just not that black and white. They’ve seen us disagree and seen me stand up for what I think is right. They’ve seen us compromise. They’ve seen him apologize for mistakes, and seen me do the same. They see genuine affection and love and respect.
So while they see that I wait on him and serve him, they see that I do it with pleasure and happiness – and really, that makes all the difference in the world when it comes to them not harboring any disgust or anger about it.
At least, I hope so. 
Favorite movie/TV Show/book/musical group or solo artist?
I really suck at picking favorites. I can never decide on any single, for-sure winner. It’s all, well, I like this bit about this one but then I like that bit about one… but I’ll give my list.
Movie: I Am Legend, Mr. Holland’s Opus, The Breakfast Club.
TV Show: American Idol, Hell’s Kitchen, Friends
Book: The Stand, The Girl in the Box, Gone With the Wind
Musical Group: Air Supply, Chicago, Nine Inch Nails
Solo Artist: Michael Jackson, Billy Joel
I want to know what makes you get up and dance.
Alcohol. Lots and lots of alcohol. *nods*
I fancy myself an undiscovered Solid Gold dancer after a couple of Long Island Iced Teas.
If you could only take one thing to a desert island what would it be?
Master (awww!) (but he is a really good fisherman so at least I wouldn’t starve!)
What is something sexual that YOU would do but your Master wouldn’t?
Suck and swallow…lol
Something along those same lines is this: whenever we talk about the possibility of loaning me out for sexual use by other men, his hang up is about not wanting to “taste” another man on my body. But I personally would love to taste another woman on him.
If you could be any color in the rainbow, which would you be and why?
Whichever color has the pot of gold on the end of it!
1) Who’s more demanding? Your Master or your cats?
Master, hands down. No contest. He wins. The End.
2) Are ya’ll ready to be grandparents?
Hell no! I’d like another year or two to prepare, please.
3) When did you start writing, and did you always know you were good at it?
The day I started this journal – and no, I didn’t know I was good at it. When I read what other people write, I still don’t think I’m any good at it.
4) Do ya’ll actually have summer up there?
I have heard rumors of a “summery-type” season, but I’m not convinced yet.
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Friday March 6th, 2009 7:28am
I stumbled across your blog somehow a couple weeks ago, and I have to say you are an amazing writer. I just finished it, start to today, and it was almost like reading a book (something I’ve never gotten from a blog before). Not to mention that your life is so interesting. I dunno what the purpose of this comment is, guess I just wanted to say something
Aww! Thank you, Cassie. I’m flattered and full ‘o’ the warm fuzzies.
WE HAVE A SUMMER!!!!!!!!!
*humphs!* Ive lived here all my life and we have a freakin summer!! Its not ALL snow yanno!
lol. I’m not convinced! All I’ve seen is snow!
You are a very good writer, a “no bullshit” writer, great fun to read.
AI – Tatiana. Dan stopped watching it because of her, just could not STAND the woman, he wanted to do terrible things to her (lol, “I’ll give her something to cry about”, horrible, heh) although now that she’s gone for good maybe he’ll watch again. I was cringing when she was begging and crying last night, get hold of yourself, for god’s sake!
I have a crush on Ramsay. Dan likes him too, although not in the way I do, heh. Although Gordon would probably call Dan “Big Boy”, since Dan is not exactly thin and then Dan would have to sock him or scream “Donkey” back at him…I don’t see that going down very well.
Gone With the Wind & The Stand, favs of mine too.
Air Supply? GIRL! O_o
;P
Oh and I’m not ready to be a grandmother either. It’s four weeks away for me now and I cannot wrap my head around that. I’m excited and happy but I’m freaked out too. Am I going to remember what to do? Is my daughter going to be okay? Is the baby going to be okay? This person coming into our lives…what will he be like? It’s wonderful but scary and I’ll be glad when it’s over and he’s here safe and sound and so is she.
The thing about Tatiana is that she’s not a bad singer. If she wasnt such a fucking fruitcake, she might have gotten farther. (and is it just me or does she kind of remind you of a younger Paula? I bet Tatiana and Paula could be BFFs.)
I want one night with Ramsey so’s he can take out all of his frustrations on me.
Do you watch Kitchen Nightmares, too? He’s a little bit nicer to those people!
What!? You don’t like Air Supply!?!? How is that possible! You must have a heart of stone. *nods*
I’m glad you’re gonna be a grandma first. Now I’ll have someone I can go to for help!
I hadn’t thought about the similarity to Paula but you’re right; especially with the basketcase personality. And yes, I think Tatiana has an awesome voice, in fact I think based on voice alone, she should have gone on. But I think the producers were afraid she’d crack at some point and cause trouble.
And yes, I would love to have Gordon take his frustrations out on me too, oh god yes. Although he comes off SO very explosive, he’d call me “fucking cow” with that look he gives and all that energy and I’d probably pee myself, then burst into tears, then cum. Srsly.
What? Yeah, I’ve thought about it.
And yes, we watch ALLLL Ramsay shows; can’t get enough of Gordon here. He IS nicer to the restaurant owners, but not *that* much more, heh.
Air Supply…okay, I have a little of their stuff. I admit it!
Grandma to grandma…we’re gonna handle it. Everyone says it just comes back, like riding a bike.
Cannot wait.
Was it just this last show where he called that one girl a “stupid cow”? I swear to God I squirted a little.
I’m all open-mouthed at the tv “OMG! Did he just… He can’t talk like…he is SO mean! Oh. Oh my. OH Jayzus. That LUCKY BITCH!!”
Hee.
But I think Simon is hot too. I call him my little “dom in a tight t-shirt”. He’s such a fashion-challenged sadist.
It’s all about the verbal for me. You too huh?
lol, yes, I constantly look over at Dan when Gordon says certain things and Dan smirks at me knowingly while I bury myself further into the couch and squirm. I can just imagine Gordon saying, “You stupid little whore” and then grabbing my hair and shoving my face into his crotch. “That’s right, that’s what you’re for…good girl. Stupid cow, keep going.”
Melt.
“Did I say you could stop?” *smacks*
Melt melt melt. Yes, it’s about the verbal mixes for me; “I’m good, I’m bad, I’m good, I’m bad…wait, what was I? OH yes…totally yours.” heh That’s when I start begging.
Do you notice how most of the women preen and quiver under Gordon’s direction? They honestly do, Dan points it out every time, “Look at how they are responding to him” (YES CHEF! *gush gush*).
Simon confuses me. Originally he came off as very dominant, very attractive, both to me AND my daughter, who developed a huge crush on him at first (btw, she is so much like me in this way but refuses to recognize that part of her, officially at any rate, ha) but then I wondered if he was a gay dom. Just some of the things he would say and some reactions.
Then I notice the way he reacts towards certain women; our darker, let us say…”exotic” sisters (Yeah, he seems to like them a lot) and I think…hmmm…okay, NOT gay. Then he does something that twigs my gay-dar again.
But as a straight Brit on “Split Ends” said about people mistaking him for gay the other day, “I’m not GAY! I’m British!” and I lol’d.
Like most American women, the accent just makes my knees wobble.
Thanks for answering, and thanks for writing. It really is fun, entertaining, educational, and sometimes plain hot to read. Please post some pictures when you have evidence of summer!
Oh my, here i am all tickled pink to read this and see that other people have crushes on Ramsey’s tenacity and brashness! i love the snappyness (i have an Owner who can be like that so it’s heaven…)
Funny. The ever-amusing kaya and her blog
Re: Something along those same lines is this: whenever we talk about the possibility of loaning me out for sexual use by other men, his hang up is about not wanting to “taste” another man on my body. But I personally would love to taste another woman on him.
Have you guys ever done anything with others? How come our Owner’s are not talking with one another? Hmmm?
xoxx
We just caught up with the latest Hell’s Kitchen last night and I realized that that’s not exactly the Ramsay I like to imagine domming me out. I would prefer the Ramsay from the F Word; he’s forceful but not QUITE so mean. He’s just so damn mean on Hell’s Kitchen! Even for my fantasies! lol
Waiting for the answer to my question…