Q&A
What exactly are the vampire gloves? I’ve read about them and only found one, not very clear picture.
Vampire Gloves. That’s where we got ours.
They are just gloves with sharp needle-like points on the fingers. A light touch scratches. A hard poke penetrates. A swat brings blood.
Master likes to snatch a nipple in his fingers when he has them on. And just very slowly, very very slowly, squeeze until (I think I can feel) each sharp point pop through my skin. It’s quite deliciously excruciating.
Or he’ll just lay a finger on me somewhere, anywhere, and press down. Hard.
Spanking with them on, while certainly leaving me with a bloodied ass, isn’t quite as painful as those slow, hard presses. Maybe it’s too fast or something.
But my all time favorite thing to do with them is when we’re having sex, missionary style, and he grabs meaty handfuls of tit meat and just wrenches and squeezes and twists and oh.my.fucking.god. That kind of pain with his cock battering my cunt is masochism heaven.
did you start the blog to blog or was it a spout off from selling the video clips? Are the vids still selling and do you see a correlation between sales and the popularity of the “freebe” stuff available on the internet? Basically curious of the trends you’ve seen with such.
I blogged for several years before we started the clips4sale store. I didn’t start blogging with the intention of selling anything. I didn’t even know people did that, and when I found out they did, I never thought we would. Not in a million years.
It was through another blogger that I was told about the clips site. She’d been doing it, and since we’d been posting video clips on the site every now and then (when we could find a place that would host them without immediate deletion for being obscene), she suggested we give it a try. So we did.
They sell. It would certainly help if we’d put up new stuff every now and then, but they’re still selling.
I’m not sure really about how the free porn on the net affects sales, for any porn site. We didn’t start the clips store until well after free porn was rampant on the net so I couldn’t tell you in sales went up or down. They fluctuate a lot as it is, but the only correlation I can see is we sell more when we make more.
What I can say is in spite of the free stuff floating around, places like Kink.com and Paintoy seem to be cruising along just fine.
I’m sure there’s been some negative impact. But just like the ability to get free music exists but I ain’t seeing no starving pop stars out there, yanno?
My question is what you thought of the fetlife sascrotch picture. ;)
The fetlife sascrotch picture (that I tried to go back and find the link to and couldn’t find it) hit a little too close to home..lol
Though I’m not QUITE as sascrotchy as that poor girl was I can well identify with the possibility of looking like I’m carrying a dead poodle on my lap.
Pubic hair is nasty, man. And these days people are just all…. ewww…. about it. Like, everyone shaves. It’s somehow become synonymous with submission, this idea of keeping oneself clean and smooth for Master, so I feel all kinds of less-than whenever my hairy old crotch has to be on display somewhere.
But that picture made me feel a little bit better, as in, “thank god I’m not as hairy as she is!”. :D
Do u prefer giving/receiving oral or your cunt..If u have to rank it
I definitely prefer getting it in my cunt. No question about it.
I srsly do not like getting oral. I never have. It feels far too much like he’s servicing me, for one. Two, it really doesn’t feel good because, well.. because he bites, the mean old fuckhead. Three, I dunno what to do with my hands.
He does it sometimes. I mean, he likes to do it and I can’t tell him no, sooo… But thankfully I’m not required to like everything he does. I’m just required to let him do it. ;)
I do like to give oral. But you’ve seen the pictures, right? Given the option, I choose fucking over blowjobs just cuz my jaw hurts.
Would you say M is a total meanie or a big softie? (sERIOUSLY! HE seems like a mixture of both n a lil of a sexy hardass softie )
He is absolutely a mixture. It depends entirely on the situation at hand. He’s leaning a bit too much toward softie lately to suit me, but it’s a nice break from the Billy Bad Ass he usually is. ;)
What made u realize this was the lifestyle for you. Was it more of a specific moment or was it more of alot of lil things leading up to it. What was your first experience like?
Right about the first time I became aware that it WAS actually a lifestyle and not some mental illness that I had. As soon as I realized that people really lived this way I knew I needed to live this way, too. I can’t even explain what an amazing realization that was. All that angst I used to carry around, thinking I was seriously sick in the head, never feeling complete, and, sad to say, suicidal thoughts because I was just never happy. Never thought I could be.
One specific moment that sticks with me was very shortly after I got with the times and bought a computer, I stumbled across a picture of a woman tied up over a barstool, set off in a corner of the room. The caption said “ready and waiting for anal” or something like that. I’ve never forgotten that photo and never forgotten how it made me feel. There was just something so incredibly RIGHT about how she looked to have been put away, set aside, until she was needed for use. Like coming home.
And, you know, once that door had been cracked, there was no turning back. I was on a mission to discover everything I could about bdsm. The rest is history, as they say.
My first experience with bdsm, I’m sad to say, doesn’t even stick out in my mind. There was kind of a whirlwind of wanting to try everything right now- unfortunately, the person I was doing it with wasn’t a dom. He was a switch though he was far more submissive than dominant. The things he did to me were things he mostly wanted done to himself so it lacked the… energy. The intensity. That guy’s play was filled with his own longing. It was sad.
The first time Master and I played, I got what I didn’t even know I’d been missing. His thorough enjoyment in causing me pain, his absolute natural and easy acceptance of himself, his dominance- it was amazing. In one session with him I lost that sense of not being whole that I’d carried for so many years. He was IT.
:)
I’m having so much FUN with this.
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Saturday March 13th, 2010 8:10am
Thanks :) I had a really hard time coming up with a question that was somwthing orignal and something you may not have answered a million times…
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Dude, if you or anyone who reads this comment finds the link to the sascrotch pic, I totally wanna see. Trainwreck Syndrome, I haz it.
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