Puzzled
Random Fetlife Quote: “All i can say is why do people treat their partners in ways they would never, god pray, treat their children!”
Bonus points for pointing out what is wrong with that statement.
(it’s 6F, feels like -9F, and I have to go snowblow the leftovers of yesterday’s “blizzard”. Pity me!! Call me a waahmbulance! I want cheese with my whine!)
(Boo.)
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Uncategorized | kaya | 
Saturday February 28th, 2009 10:52am
Er… if we didn’t do to our partner what we would never do to our children we’d never have sex with our partner. Though I’m sure you had something else in mind.
It was 53F and raining yesterday. Today it’s 27F and clear. Utter bull shit. I call a do over.
Kaya,
The statement assumes a relationship with a partner and with one’s children should be the same, when in fact, they’re entirely different types of relationships. Anyone who is treating their partners identical to their kids is either abusing the kids or devaluing the partner.
Dave
Well, I would TREAT children like they are adults, but that doesn’t mean I’d act the same towards them.
(Know what’s funny? Master’s mom hates me because of this. Her daughter LOVES me for it)
if people didn’t do to their partner what they wouldn’t do to their children, then they wouldn’t have children, now would they?
Because you would never order, “Make me a sammich” to your kids?
And “god pray”? Isn’t that supposed to be the other way around?
It’s so hard to tell with religion these days. ;P
And the “i” is lowercase when it should be upper.
Besides, it should have been W/we.
That is all.
lol. You are cracking me up.
’cause god pray their partners are not their children.
I found the statement to be just plain old weird on a website dedicated to kink and fetishism and s&m interaction.
My reply over there was “because we don’t have s&m relationships with our children.”
Seriously. What was he thinking?!
Ten bucks says the poster is in a Daddy/little girl relationship. Because then it would all make sense. PERFECT sense.
Just sayin’.
*smirk*
I’ll take your ten bucks (~grinning from ear to ear~). We are in a Daddy / little girl relationship and Sir definitely, should I say DEFINITELY does not treat our daughter the same way he treats me. If he did – we would need to be calling the cops.
(I am not yellin’ at you with the caps, just wanted to emphasize the point)
I agree with Kaya. The whole post is just creepy.
junebug
Whole lot of AMEN to that, junebug!
~Chloe
wait…..not our childern?????? Damn, I just have to go read that instruction booklet!!!!!!!!!
who exactly would god pray to anyway?
I saw that post on fetlife and thought it was creepy then…I think ‘ew’ was the thought that came to mind.
lol i read all of that thread and couldnt believe what i was reading and had to laugh at the OP who on her very own profile states she is open minded, but she isnt (doesnt really suprise me) and then this stupid Ravean orwhateverhernameis who supposedly has been around a time or two, who again is nothing like what her profile states…if anything it was good for a laugh.
Oh that thread was *hilarious*. I really wish I didn’t have to hold back or face being banned cuz I could have so. much. fun.
But Fetlife is an endless source of lulz for me.
lulz?
lulz = laughter in lolcat speak.
I know. I’m ashamed. I’m a total addict.
Perhaps he was just trying to make a point and didn’t think it through. Replace “children” with “strangers” and I could see where he might be coming from. Not necessarily (good lord thank god for spell check, my brain is mush) making a comparison between how one would actually treat their partner and their children…but more having to do with the crappy ways that people can begin to treat their partners…(those not so yummy/happy crappy ways). IF that was his point though…I doubt he gave any thought to how…abstract the point was in context to where he was posting it. After all…we could debate all day about what’s yummy/happy crappy and not yummy/happy crappy for another.
And now…I get back to studying Bleh…
Hmmm….this is just an educational guess, but me thinks that people treat their partners differently than their own children because it’s illegal to do some stuff to your own children (like I don’t know…have sex with them) and a child wouldn’t understand the concepts of bdsm like an adult would.
Just a guess though
Cause my wife can take a whole lot more beating then a child? You know, she is sturdier.