“One should never underestimate the profound resiliency of the human spirit, nor how swiftly things can change for the better – often overnight.”
Spring is in the air.
Not necessarily Mother Nature’s spring (though it is warming up considerably) but spring is in the air in our relationship. In Master’s eyes, his step, his attitude. There’s been a rejuvenation of his spirit- and by extension, my spirit as well.
All it took to create this magical miracle of high-flying wonder? One solid spanking and some hella good sex.
So simple. So fucking easy. It’s like we’ve been swimming in mud without realizing it until we slid into clear sparkling water. Suddenly, we’re light and airy- and sore, at least I am- but light and airy nonetheless.
Not even Jes’s foul mood yesterday is going to spoil this high. It’s been too long in coming and I’m going to enjoy it, dammit.
We were little social butterflies this weekend, going out to meet people all three nights. Not just any people, D/s people. People who light a spark merely by their open acceptance.
Friday night we met a couple for dinner whom we’d been emailing with for a few months or so, and we had a great time. There was nothing overtly kinky going on, we were all dressed and sitting in public like “normal” folks- well, nothing overt unless you count his hand under the table, giving my leg a painful squeeze and his stern order to “Stop wiggling. It’s irritating.” A sneaky snatch ‘n’ tug of my ear when he caught wind of us girls, giggling over hiding toys. Or the non-assuming way he handed me his mug, a mug full of that dark, deeply bitter beer that he loves so much and that I find to be disgusting, quietly telling me to take a nice, big taste just because he knows how much I hate it.
Nothing overt, though probably a waiter passing too close may have been taken aback at the conversation subjects. ;-)
Saturday we went to the munch and that is beginning to feel very comfortable as we become more familiar with the faces and names. I’ve seen quite a few of them naked now, and they’ve seen me, so, really, what’s left to be shy about?? We talk and laugh and surreptitiously grope each other when the wait staff leaves the room.
We’d had tentative plans to play after the munch but we talked too long and it got late and everyone was tired so it was decided we’d play the next night.
So! Sunday night we went over to another couple’s house and they had cooked us dinner and let us use a room for some spanking. I was afraid it would be awkward, you know, like, hi, how are ya, mind if we come over so’s I can beat my woman? But it wasn’t, not at all. They are just the coolest, down to earth bdsm couple and it was really neat to hear them playing, too, as we were.
I got a good spanking. It wasn’t a terribly hard scene, no blood ‘n’ guts, no tears (though I came close) – just lots of focused attention to my butt and then we got really super horny and we fucked right then and there. At their house. While they fucked in the next room. For a little while, I think she and I were having simultaneous ‘gasms, judging from the corresponding moans. ;)
I have to say that we don’t typically feel comfortable enough to ask to borrow a bed, nor are we horny enough that we can’t wait to get home. Like a couple of horny teenagers we were!
Honestly, having like-minded folk around to spark these thoughts and feelings has been priceless. We needed this so. bad.
And again, it happened that I had very little desire for it (the pain and spanking, etc.) right up until it started. Once the blows started coming, my desire started coming. So maybe it isn’t that I’m losing my masochism, but that I really am getting a handle on harnessing it, controlling it. Could it be? Dare I hope?
Yesterday, Master made the comment that he feels it coming back- feels the energy, the exchange, the juju and the mojo.
So if it is true that spanking is destroying feminism? All y’all ladies are screwed, cuz, Imma get me some more ASAP. Sorry y’all. :D
I dunno what this toy is called but it sucks ASS.
You just can’t go wrong with a flogger. Except for when it wraps cuz that really sucks, don’t it?
“Just checkin’.”
His hands just might be my favorite “toy” of all. :)
He didn’t want any part of me to feel left out, considerate man that he is!
So, there you have it. Spanking as a cure-all. Seems like we’ve only had to learn this lesson about 50 times.
There’s a clip up at the clip store.
~cunt
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Tuesday March 17th, 2009 7:04am
Did you finally get to shave?? lol the last pic doesn’t look that hairy from what I can see!
Nope. Just the lighting and angle of the camera I guess.
I’m so glad you guys got your mo-jo back! I thought you might! Funny how it comes and goes, isn’t it? You guys look great!
And I’m envious you get to meet with like-minded people. Must be nice. *looks wistful* Were they bloggers you know? Or did you meet them through munches?
Dan opened up quite a bit last year about what we do to his best friend who lives down south; we see him maybe four times a year since he travels here a lot for his work which is connected to Dan’s work. He was having major problems in his marriage and Dan was trying to help. He tried some stuff with his wife but although she responded very well, she started depending on it a lot and he found it all too much work and stopped. Just not his thing, not his personality. Anyway…I’m dreading his next visit because…I don’t know. He didn’t like it so now I feel weird about being around him next time. Bah. I need to get over it.
The couple that we met Friday night, we met through Fetlife actually. It’s kind of weird really, because we’d just started commenting back and forth with them on Fet a little bit and then we found out we were moving – to exactly their area. Were I suspicious person, I’d wonder if they voodoo’ed us or sumfin’. ;-)
The other people we met through the munch.
I’m normally a really private person and isolation/hermit-hood suits me very well but there is no denying the effect that socializing with people like us has. It’s profound, especially when you click and we’ve clicked with many up here. I’m really very thankful for them.
It’s too bad you feel weird around your friend, though I get why you do because Master has a friend that I feel weird around, too, for some of the same reasons. He knows what we do, knows enough anyway, and he doesn’t approve. He still likes us, well, Master mostly, they’ve been friends for years, but there is definitely an aura of disapproval. There just isn’t much you can do but be yourself.
WE are lucky to have friends like you two, to share so many things with, not just the lifestyle, but also nilla things, kids, jobs, weather :) Thanks for letting us into your world!! We love you both…. cum, use our home anytime, the “sucks ASS” toy will be ready and waiting for your Master
PS: That frigging snow mountian is melting! (I found the trailer that was attatched to my truck)
WiDomher
Thanks. :)
We’re looking forward to summer. I think we’ll have more opportunities to do stuff. We’ll have to go pervert shopping at rummage sales!
*dances in circles clapping her hands and singing*
Kaya got some booty! Kaya got some booty! And a little spankin’! And a little spankin’! Now she’s smilin’ purty! Now she’s smilin’ purty!
…
Okay, I’m done.
*claps and sings along*
I got some booty! And some spankin! Na na na na boo boo!
for sure on the pervert shopping can you say remote vibrators???
This will be fun
Oh wonderful weekend! You always makes me jealous, kaya :-D
One question more, if possible…
You said about things/facts/evidence the kids know or not, but i just wonder how do you title each other in their presence? Are there some times when D/s utterance slip out, just unconsciously…
For example, at the very beginning when Master and i talked very often online, i had the problem to type “m” automaticly in “M” in my dissertations and “i” in lower form… Well, in written form it is easy to find out and modify, but orally if it is said, then there is little chance to change, right? Or you are just so skilled in the switching of the two speech parterns that it means no problem for you in whatever moment?
Thank you.
Yay for guys! Spring is in the air and so is spanking. At least that’s my hope! :-)
Btw, that toy that “sucks ASS” – do you know where they got that lovely or what it’s made of?
Hugs!
Bethie
Umm that’s “Yay for you guys!” I can’t type today. I’m blaming it on the fact that I’m in dire need of a manicure.
Of course, if you want to read it “Yay for guys” that’s a cool sentiment, too. ;-)
:D
It’s so good to come here and read such a happy entry. (Hopefully Jes’s mood brightens soon – maybe you’ll rub off on her!)
I’m jealous of the munches. We’re in a group, which is actually kind of a cast-off group of one that was run poorly and by an egomaniacal woman who wanted a bunch of minions. Sadly, Daddy’s not really a social person, so even though I really enjoy a lot of the people we’ve met, we mostly still stay at home. *I* am the social one, LOL. Thank goodness he lets me work, or I’d shrivel up and die.
PS – I don’t know what that toy is called either but…where’d it come from? Did y’all make it? Call me insane, because I don’t really like much impact play…but I think I may want one. (At least, yanno, till it gets here…)
There is just something about playing in the company of people who “get” it. I can spend weeks and months at a time feeling like the biggest wimp on the planet, and believing that there is nothing left in all of this for me, and then we make it into some more “public” venue, and it is like I get a fill-up from the energy that is generated when we play in the presence of supportive, accepting, knowledgeable other people.
I am glad that you got your moment in that sort of environment, and that it worked its magic for you both.
hugs, swan
Kaya,
Congrats on the booty call. From the sound of things, this could be a regular occurance, yes? That would be so cool.
Dave
After having a ‘spanking good time’, the good doctor, wants to feel your pulse, or should I say your ‘pussy’ That earns you another well deserved spanking.