Comments on: “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”

By: Kate m.

Kate m. — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 18:46:00 +0000

I don’t quite have enough time to read through everyone else’s comments so my apologies if I’m repeating things you’ve already heard.

For things to live they must change. If your relationship with your husband hadn’t changed, it would have died. That you and your husband are going to be able to keep up any relationship through such a significant change means you’re keeping something very precious alive. All you both have to do with weather and embrace it.

Good luck and enjoy! (You’re an adrenaline junkie anyway if I recall – you’ll be fine :) ).

By: Sir's pet

Sir's pet — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 01:18:22 +0000

Tess,
i’m sure that everyone else has said it all; however, let me say that i hope you stay around. Vanilla or not, your writing is interesting and often touches me somewhere deep inside, especially this particular post.

i know that you will do what feels right for you and yours, and i wish you the very best in this new chapter.

Know as you venture forth that you are a strong and good woman, mother, and you will do well.
Sir’s pet

By: therese

therese — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 14:40:42 +0000

i am sitting here crying…for you are hurting.

Moving on is always difficult, remember i know that too well…but in the end we need to do what is right for us, deep down the core of who we are…

we have loss contact, but i’ve always thought of you as a net friend…the way you write touches my soul in so many ways.

I wish you well on your journey you must take now…

sue, aka therese.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 23:50:40 +0000

Another lurker and another who wishes you nothing but the best for the journey ahead. You are loved. You are strong.

By: Coral

Coral — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 21:57:19 +0000

Dear Tess,

I also was looking at the computer all weekend and wondering where you went. I’m so very sorry to hear about what has happened and wish you all the very very best in your new life.

I echo everyone else when I say I would be devastated if you stopped blogging. I found you through the kink but I feel in awe of what a strong woman you really are.

If you ever need anything, then you have my email….I really do mean that!

*HUGS*
Coral
xxxxxxx

By: Maria

Maria — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 16:10:18 +0000

I’ve been looking at this entry for a few days now, and I still really don’t know what to say, other than I hope it all works out.

It’s going to be a big change, for sure. But I’m cheering for you the entire way.

By: ScaredyCat

ScaredyCat — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 03:19:08 +0000

Tess…
I cannot believe how many people who have posted here are like me… Not too kinky, not too big on doing a lot of posting, and loving your blog for the writing and just for the sheer joy of getting to hear about your life and your thoughts The kinky pictures you print are always fun, but so are the cat pictures and the dog puke pictures and the snow pictures and I’m sure you get my drift. :-)
Like everyone else, I hope you feel you can keep on blogging, and I hope things go well for you as you move into a new phase of life, and I would dearly love to hear how you do that. As far as I’m concerned, this is the stuff of life, and it’s what makes us real and human and alive.
You and Scott and your family have my very best wishes as you move forward. And, although we have never talked, even online, I would like to say that if there is anything I can do to help, please ask. I truly hope you can work this out and things will begin to go as you would like. But, whatever you feel you have to do, my very best wishes go with you. :)

By: Joe's Slut

Joe's Slut — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 03:49:22 +0000

My first stop everyday when I get home is here. You will be missed by all if you quit, kink or not. You’ve got a lot of people who love you.
Hope it all works out in the best of ways.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 01:05:15 +0000

“I came for the kink. But I stayed for you.”
I could not put it better. Thank you for all the times you made me laugh and made me thing. Peace and blessings on your new path.

By: spicy

spicy — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 23:40:26 +0000

DAM hun,
i kinda thought you were going through a rough patch with him but i thought it was the move maybe,

ARE YOU SURE this is right moving uprooting, aren you just running away from him and your life, sorry to say it but dam i think your wrong for leaving
well be well i realy am in total shock about this
yeah yeah i know this is the hard kind of caring i am saying right now
but have you realy locked at what your leaving behind and i do notmean the pain
Dam just to find someone who give a dam in this world is hard enfough and try loved

well your wrong for leaving everything in life canbe worked out