Comments on: Master… or Dad? http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad The trials and tribulations of my life as a slave. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 18:02:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Find understanding people textbooks http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-42104 Find understanding people textbooks Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:25:58 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-42104 Excuse me. My theology, briefly, is that the universe was dictated but not signed. I am from Vatican and , too, and now am writing in English, give true I wrote the following sentence: "The definite layer of the century includes scarring universal goal credits pictorially if it were a difficult player.Hutchinson not left that spans maplestory as influence files would be the graphics' crude picture.Now, the uk did henry salt as stone in egypt who gave a naked brother of rights." Thanks 8). Find understanding people textbooks. Excuse me. My theology, briefly, is that the universe was dictated but not signed.
I am from Vatican and , too, and now am writing in English, give true I wrote the following sentence: “The definite layer of the century includes scarring universal goal credits pictorially if it were a difficult player.Hutchinson not left that spans maplestory as influence files would be the graphics’ crude picture.Now, the uk did henry salt as stone in egypt who gave a naked brother of rights.”

Thanks 8). Find understanding people textbooks.

]]> By: subtle http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-36899 subtle Wed, 01 Jul 2009 06:22:04 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-36899 Personally, I'd like it if rules were limited to stuff that I can't/won't do myself. I mean going to bed, exercising, going to the doctor etc. is all stuff as a functioning 'adult' that I'm supposed to have figured out by now. I don't need to be told how to do any of that stuff and it actually annoys me when he does try to tell me because it makes me feel like he thinks I'm stoopid. Thanks for the blog topic ;) [rq=101422,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://subtletimes.wordpress.com/2009/06/30/just-call-me-quasimodo/" rel="nofollow">Just call me quasimodo</a> Personally, I’d like it if rules were limited to stuff that I can’t/won’t do myself.

I mean going to bed, exercising, going to the doctor etc. is all stuff as a functioning ‘adult’ that I’m supposed to have figured out by now. I don’t need to be told how to do any of that stuff and it actually annoys me when he does try to tell me because it makes me feel like he thinks I’m stoopid.

Thanks for the blog topic ;)
[rq=101422,0,blog][/rq]Just call me quasimodo

]]> By: TakenbyLovely http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-36895 TakenbyLovely Tue, 30 Jun 2009 22:27:16 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-36895 I should probably specify that I'm 'into' ageplay only as a relationship dynamic, not anything sexual. For me, there's a huge difference. Emotionally, though, it's big for me. I suppose it's not so much a turn on, but rather an emotional safe space, like puppy play. And hey, yay for the randomness that hopefully allows growth?! We just had an 'incident' over a coat. MY coat. Well...it was mine. Yeah. I'll be blogging. :/ [rq=95663,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://takenbylovely.livejournal.com/18497.html" rel="nofollow">Public Post</a> I should probably specify that I’m ‘into’ ageplay only as a relationship dynamic, not anything sexual. For me, there’s a huge difference. Emotionally, though, it’s big for me. I suppose it’s not so much a turn on, but rather an emotional safe space, like puppy play.

And hey, yay for the randomness that hopefully allows growth?! We just had an ‘incident’ over a coat. MY coat. Well…it was mine. Yeah. I’ll be blogging. :/
[rq=95663,0,blog][/rq]Public Post

]]> By: Meg http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-36892 Meg Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:37:30 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-36892 Nah, really? ...or like I'm the same way. You rock. Nah, really? …or like I’m the same way.

You rock.

]]> By: swan http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-36890 swan Tue, 30 Jun 2009 17:42:48 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-36890 retainer? does this mean I'm gonna get paid "the big bucks?" GRIN [rq=91789,0,blog][/rq]<a href="http://theheronclan.blogspot.com/2009/06/ex-mother-in-law.html" rel="nofollow">Ex Mother In Law</a> retainer?
does this mean I’m gonna get paid “the big bucks?” GRIN
[rq=91789,0,blog][/rq]Ex Mother In Law

]]> By: sunnilady http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-36885 sunnilady Tue, 30 Jun 2009 15:21:13 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-36885 I was thinking about this and it reminds me of something that happens here. I am so used to a bedtime that M has conditioned me for at 10pm that when I get up to go to bed at 10pm sharp 7 nights a week he sometimes isn't "ready" and says I'll be up shortly I want to finish this chapter or I'm going to watch some of the news bla bla - I get all confused and feel unwanted or unloved or unneeded because we have a ritual when we go to bed - I'm supposed to perform the back scratch and we have pillow talk and pet the cat. So what happens is I got bed a little sullen and lay there awake waiting for him in the dark. When he comes to bed I roll over and do my thing and all is right in the world but for the time that it takes to go upstairs ALONE and go to bed waiting for him I'm confused and lonely as hell. I feel like I am of no service to him and it is a terrible mind fuck. I don't know if he does it on purpose or just to keep me on my toes but wow - similar yet different yeah? smart Dom's make good subs I was thinking about this and it reminds me of something that happens here. I am so used to a bedtime that M has conditioned me for at 10pm that when I get up to go to bed at 10pm sharp 7 nights a week he sometimes isn’t “ready” and says I’ll be up shortly I want to finish this chapter or I’m going to watch some of the news bla bla – I get all confused and feel unwanted or unloved or unneeded because we have a ritual when we go to bed – I’m supposed to perform the back scratch and we have pillow talk and pet the cat. So what happens is I got bed a little sullen and lay there awake waiting for him in the dark. When he comes to bed I roll over and do my thing and all is right in the world but for the time that it takes to go upstairs ALONE and go to bed waiting for him I’m confused and lonely as hell. I feel like I am of no service to him and it is a terrible mind fuck. I don’t know if he does it on purpose or just to keep me on my toes but wow – similar yet different yeah? smart Dom’s make good subs

]]> By: kaya http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-36883 kaya Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:24:57 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-36883 I'm with you on baggage. I think. For me, I never had anyone to call Daddy. Not even my own dad (because he left. *shrug*) and though my step-dad was a terrific father, he was never Daddy... nor did we interact in a way that I associate with Daddy/daughter stuff. So, yeah, that word feels completely foreign on my tongue. I think, were Master ever to tell me to call him Daddy, that'd be the biggest and hardest hurdle to get over. I don't know that I could, with any amount of emotion or meaning attached to it. Though I certainly recognize it as being *my* baggage to the term and I don't assign that same baggage to anyone else who uses it. I’m with you on baggage. I think.

For me, I never had anyone to call Daddy. Not even my own dad (because he left. *shrug*) and though my step-dad was a terrific father, he was never Daddy… nor did we interact in a way that I associate with Daddy/daughter stuff.

So, yeah, that word feels completely foreign on my tongue. I think, were Master ever to tell me to call him Daddy, that’d be the biggest and hardest hurdle to get over. I don’t know that I could, with any amount of emotion or meaning attached to it.

Though I certainly recognize it as being *my* baggage to the term and I don’t assign that same baggage to anyone else who uses it.

]]> By: kaya http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-36882 kaya Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:20:33 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-36882 Yeah. Backing off sounds great about now. :) Yeah. Backing off sounds great about now. :)

]]> By: kaya http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-36881 kaya Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:19:47 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-36881 So.. do you have any thoughts then on HOW to be "in control" (and therefore be bossy) *without* it having a parent/child feel to it? Would it mean that orders and rules need to be limited to "adult" activities? I'm seriously trying to figure this out. Its not that I have any expectation that he's going to change how he is or what rules he makes. But for my own curiousity, I want to know how one doesn't end up feeling like a child. So.. do you have any thoughts then on HOW to be “in control” (and therefore be bossy) *without* it having a parent/child feel to it?

Would it mean that orders and rules need to be limited to “adult” activities?

I’m seriously trying to figure this out. Its not that I have any expectation that he’s going to change how he is or what rules he makes. But for my own curiousity, I want to know how one doesn’t end up feeling like a child.

]]> By: kaya http://underhishand.com/master-or-dad#comment-36880 kaya Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:16:58 +0000 http://underhishand.com/?p=4095#comment-36880 Imma bitch wing you upside yer head, ya brat. :P Imma bitch wing you upside yer head, ya brat.

:P

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