Very nicely said, Sir… i find it difficult to respect “one-true-wayism” in this lifestyle…we are who we are…and as slaves, we are who our Masters want us to be.

I’ve been thinking this, about us not seeing more than a snapshot at a time, since the scary comment post about breaking up. We see so much of the communication and the ‘positive face’ that it came as a shock. But what the fuck do we know? We aren’t in your home, in your bed, in your world.

That said, sometimes I think the comment like that come in response to Kaya’s expressed uncertainties. If someone says, “I’m not feeling very successful.” then it’s not unreasonable to get a comment back of “Well, if you could do this, it might help.”

Which, of course, is different from “Of course you are failing. You are a suck slave ’cause you don’t do it my way.”

::shakes head:: Shame you get both.

You being madly deeply truly in love with her says it all…how wonderful is that? I feel bad for those who are critical, but will never know how a love like that feels. Damn, reading this blog is sometimes the best part of my day and this is one of those times.
Rock on!!

BRAVO S I totally agree and my wife/sub and I really enjoy reading this blog

Mr Robert
House of Robert

Very well put. It is amazing how many so called open minded people can’t wait to point out how you’re doing it wrong or a real slave wouldn’t do XYZ. I say to each their own and whatever makes the people in the relationship happy….however it is they do it.

Master Scott, you have said it all — the only thing I can add is:

Brava! Loud applause, standing ovation

And that’s so romantic! Now I can’t wait for my Master to get home, so I can snuggle him (and maybe get one of those romantic spankings!) [huge grin]

From the Master of kaya,
A friend of ours from Europe called this evening (their morning) and he stated….Don’t judge someone unless you walked at least a mile in their shoes.

Very wise words from a very wise man.

S

*warm smiles and hugs*
I get to kaya’s posting so rarely (yep is’t me Demureserenity from lj - I missed ya!! :D).

S, it was wonderfully warming to read your post and of your love for her just as she is and as you desire her. I love reading her post - use to read every day. I am glad you both are here and that you allow us this page into your life which is truely amazing and inspiring and am so thankful for her openess, enjoyment, thoughtfulness and willingness to be here - you both are appreciated and uplifting *even if that is not the goal it is a blessed benefit amen*

Blessings
Demureserenity

well such a fine *caboose* she is too…your relationship with kaya is just that, your relationship…no matter what anyone says, it will always be that way and that way is whatever way it suits YOU both….i love the realness of your relationship, its one that is often not seen sadly, im priviledged to be able to share in this blog, thanks .

Thank god there’s Doms out there who like women who are rough around the edges. I know I’d be Dom-less without their existence. I get annoyed when people expect slaves or subs to be perfect. We’re all human, Dom or sub, and life is not a story book. You find the person who is the right fit for YOU.

UMMM, on the comment from anonymous, maybe i am dense but from the comment it seems like they know you all and IMHO that makes it worse. How low and weak does a person have to be to attack you on line? Wow, i have only commented here on one other post but i have read nearly every one. i know you don’t write to be an example or teacher but you are just by being open and that is why we read…right? Or again, am i just dense?…

i think the last time i posted i may have said this, but screw ‘em. You two know who and what you are and now we all know what kind of jackass that commenter is…and the language…my Sir would wash my keyboard off with soap

Okay its official… MOK and my Master (Master Coyote) are brothers who were separated at birth. *nods* Seriously though, after meeting both MOK and kaya I have to say that you two are a wonderful couple who we both really enjoy being around. And I applaud you both!

This is a public service announcement.

There is currently a troll on the loose. It urgently needs to be re-caged and hidden in a dark hole, as it has had significant training in how to be inconsiderate, rude and just plain wrong.

If you have any information on where this putrid creature can be located, please proceed directly to ignoring it and banning its IP address.

sparkle

(seriously, this reeks of trolling.)

nice post Kaya’s Dom

i’m pretty much the same in people probably dont think of me as a ‘twue slave’ or any of that bollocks because some of the things we do dont fit the stereotype. I dont want to fit a stereotype.

We’re all different, and as long as you’re perfect for each other who cares. And as someone above said…they’re probably just jealous because they arent getting any themselves.

keep having fun

x

I feel incredibly priviledged to be given the opportunity to read about Kaya and her Master’s life. Surely what goes on in someones home is up to then, if it doesn’t conform to another’s stereotype, who the hell are they to say anthing at all.

The very fact that S has come here and “defended” their life together, in what is really, a private space, is testament enough to the validity of their relationship.

Kaya has helped me a lot in recent times, and now that I have settled into my own relationship, with a man very similar in outlook to S, I will quote what He said when I read details of kaya’s blog too him - “what we, and they do is nobody else’s business but our own. If we are happy with what and who we are, then fuck what anybody else thinks” - He does have a way with words.

But His sentiment hits the nail on the head.

And I do agree with other posters here, if someone is critising what you have, they obviously have nothing of their own.

You guys rock!!!

Honey xx

Sir, doesn’t that just want to make you slap em in the face, make them cry and bleed until they beg for mercy????

Oh wait….hee hee…that is what you do to people you love! They don’t deserve that kind of attention!!!

They are all evil rat bastards and not worth the time.

My best to You and Yours.

Caboose? Heh. I LIKE kaya’s caboose.

And, like I said earlier in the week, the two of you suit each other very well indeed.
Fuck a bunch of ignoramuses who disagree.
THEY’VE never seen the way you two shine.

much love,
carrie

You said it all Sir

Been way too busy slavin’ in an unslavelike (to many!) way! But what a lovely post to come “home” to!

If there were truly one “RIGHT” way to do “it”, the world would be a very boring place. The master forms the slave he desires..for him. And i agree with you completely that a criticism of the slave’s slavishness is truly a criticism of the Master.

i do not understand why people who disagree or find something distasteful cannot just read elsewhere…your blogroll alone should give plenty of options to find something more to their liking.

i’ve said it before and i’ll repeat myself..it’s envy combined with stupidity…a particularly ugly combination.

Thanks for speaking up…some things really shouldn’t be ignored!

~s/nik

*thumbs up for awesome*

Huge Kudos to You and Kaya, S! It always appears that you both are mature enough to understand what is important in making a relationship not only work, but LAST. And she is definitely very very lucky to have found a man who loves her for who she is (and will let him make her into) and will defend her honor as You do.

In the midst of everything the one thing that comes through in her writing is that you both are madly deeply in love. You’re definatly doing it your way and that ROCKS! In all my life I’ve never had make-up sex but I’ll have to try it

If I may be so bold-
I feel you should not have to justify yourself to anyone else. You and kaya live the lifestyle the way YOU want. It works for yall and no one has right to pass judgment on how you live your bdsm.

It comes in all flavors people- who are you to judge?

*hugs*