OH! Do you actually use the laundry soap that you had in a previous post? The homemade stuff? I do. It lasts forever, and though it is chunky…i havent yet found any soap scummy stuff on my clothes. And im on my third batch!

Can we ask another question if we think of it later?

When did you have your first (consensual–I don’t want to assume anything) kiss? How did it happen?

You tell such charming stories. Going through your archives is a lovely way to avoid doing work. Thanks!

I’m a long time lurker on your blog. So here’s my question: what are your favorite and least favorite ways of spanking? Like positions and instruments.

I have a question that has to do with my own doubts and problems. Do you think that your masochism may have gone because, at times, the pain or suffering was too bad? Like – you seemed to really hate the hosing with cold water. Or even the blue stick or the misery stick. (This is the background: Nowadays, I often get so afraid when we are starting to “play” that I am almost paralysed. In looking back once it is over, everything doesn´t seem so bad. But, in fact, while I still really like playing with humiliation, and softer pain, I don´t feel any arousal anymore when he uses the horrible instruments or does the feet torture, or whatever.) Do you sometimes wish you could make Scott “play softly” – which, I think, sadists can´t really do?
love from Tina

thanks
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