A Post from kaya’s Master
Hello,
kaya and I have had some difficulty with our relationship the last several days. So, to answer your questions, NO it was NO hoax or fricking April fools joke….*shakes my head*…..I think kaya and myself have more respect for the lifestyle to joke around about stuff like that.
With that stated, we are working through the issues. After much debate, we have decided to remain a couple, both in marriage and as Master/slave and as a family. We don’t have velcro collars here, so I hope and ask that you don’t think anything as such. I, for one, truly dislike drama. We all do and say stupid things in the spur of the moment and especially while arguing about certain things. I would like to apologize if this caused any bad feelings.
kaya’s gut reaction is to run away from issues and my gut reaction is to turn off my emotions and be a cold fish and face things with a whatever dude, attitude. Again, this caused issues and again issues which mostly have been resolved. The other issues we are facing will be long term issues, but shouldn’t affect our lifestyle wholeheartedly.
With this said, kaya and I are back on track and she will be able to post again soon.
Best regards,
Mok
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Friday March 28th, 2008 10:00pm
Thank you so much for letting us know. I hope that things work out the best for the two of you.
Yes, thanks for the update. Was rather perturbing to come across that post in the comments as I was reading last night. Came as sort of a “Huh? WTF?” bombshell.
I too hope things work out the best for both of you.
Very glad to hear you are working things through! Much strength and patience to you both.
Just wanted to let you both know that you are in our (Coyote’s and my’s..) thoughts and that if either of you need to talk.. we’re always here. Hugs to you both from us.
Dear M-o-k (and kaya),
I know I don’t actually know you and kaya in the flesh, so there’s not much I can probably do to help, but I have been so worried about you both, and I am so very glad to see this post.
You and kaya have my complete support, and if I can do anything to help (even just be a sympathetic ear), kaya has my phone number and email address.
Really … what you guys have is too bloody amazing to end it over some misspoken words. I hope that patching things up goes as smoothly as possible … and like scar tissue, just makes that patch of skin stronger.
~Zille
Thank you Zille. You know how much I appreciate your continued support and friendship. Love you, sweetheart.
glad you’re working through it
I just popped in
to share a new would be toy
the bite is hardly tortuous
pretty tame actually
but before you pass …
it is fairly tenacious (and cheap!)
and has a handy place to stash upgradables
that would up the ante
half expecting to see this thing
with teeth LOL
in Kaya’s Kinky Krafts next week
(which is what makes me think to post it here of course)
thought ya’ll might appreciate
http://www.amazon.com/Tea-Infuser-1-5-Inch-Mesh-Ball/dp/B0006SYA34/ref=pd_sim_k_img_7
Interesting! So tell me.. what would *you* do to it and with it? ;)
HA!
I was thinking it’d make a good ice cube to the nipple holder. Tame perhaps.. but CHILLING nonetheless ;)
Mok and Kaya,
Thanks for letting us know. I, personally, didn’t know what to think and thought it best to wait and see for a few days. I knew it wouldn’t be a joke, not for such a serious issue as this, but I was sure that you two would still be together. I’m glad you’re able to work things through.
I know I can’t do much to help, a faceless bunch of words on yiour computer screen, but I am praying for you all. When you’re ready to post again, you will. Meanwhile, we’ll keep the light on for you. Take care.
Dave
My sincere apologies for having been flip. I really did think it was a joke — something about it appearing in the midst of a raging debate about politics and male superiority. So, I do apologize, and wish you both the best.
*hugs*
I wish you both the best.
Nothing quite so disconcerting as seeing two of my top five fave, loved and respected peoples in the online community come so close to an end. I’m beyond relieved that the two of you are working through things.
*sends hugs to you both*
im very glad to read that you guys are getting back on track! i wish you guys the best…i dont think the wonderful good times would be as good if we all didnt go through a few rough patches every now and then.
Agian i wish you guys the best!
Thanks for the update…very relieved (but not surprised :) ) to hear that you are working things through. i wish you both much fortitude and patience, and a solid return to harmony.
all the best
Very glad to hear that you’re working it through.
You are both in my thoughts and prayers. along with everyone else, i am glad that you are working through things together. take your time and i wish you both much patience and love.
Thank you for letting us know. Such an odd situation when relative strangers become part of the mix.
Know that we all wish you both the best.
Why do you call her Kaya?
Habit. My online name has always been kaya. *shrug* Nothing profound about it.
Thank you for the update – as you’ve seen, this has been weighing heavily on all our minds. You have a lot of folks out here who care and have been worried. *big sigh of relief* Best to you both!!
take care of yourselves.
Honey xx
you all do this every couple of months. i mean really. it’s getting old and i think i’m done reading this site. i really think it’s just all bullshit anyhow. i think you just have the site to make money and have some sort of twisted “stardom.” what a joke.
Oh Hey There ‘Anonymous’,
It’s hard to be in a relationship. It’s even harder to stay in a relationship, long-term, and make it work. This may come as a surprise to you, but there are ups and downs in real relationships.
It benefits everyone reading this to see that real relationships have real problems.
I can’t even imagine what it must be like for them to have some nameless asshat complain because their real-life, heart-wrenching problem has somehow fucked up your fantasy idea of what M/s is about.
NEWSFLASH: M/s IS a relationship.
You should stop reading this blog. Stick to the Beauty series, the world of Gor, the Story of O or whatever other fantasy jerk-off material you use to fwap-fwap-fwap your days away. Real life isn’t all butterflies and beatings, shithead.
FUCK YOU, and the horse you rode in on.
Sincerely,
minx
PS to kaya and M.O.K.
Sorry for the rant in your blog, but sweet jesus in the morning, this made me mad. :-/
haha! the beauty of the internet is that I can say whatever it is I’m thinking! Imagine that. Lovely language you use there sweetheart.
The beauty of the internet is not having to have any integrity, is it? Some of us say what we think in real life, and give some basic thought to what we say, even if it’s anonymous. If you think it doesn’t matter if you hurt people because no one knows it was you, well, I don’t think I even have to say what I think about you.
Well said! Very well said!
Dave
*nod nod nod*
THANK YOU!! ;)
Oh no! Anonymous troll!!! Please don’t leave, oh it would just break all of our hearts.
you say: “i think i’m done reading this site”. Good. Don’t be a hypocrite. Stick to your word.
i’m sending good thoughts your way.
At times I have been discouraged with some of the “perfect” portrayals…knowing that I can never live up to perfection.
The sharing of trials in an M/s relationship may help some of us who see only the very high bar to leap over.
Good luck to you.
I think what you have is well worth working for and I bet you do too. Hope it goes OK
You both are in my thoughts as you work through whatever it is that needs attention.
Good for you both to want to work through it instead of the most common “run away” theory.
Again – good luck and if i help in anyway, let me know.
I am beginning to wonder if there is such a thing as a relationship between two people who know who they are and what they want, and who try to make the relationship meaningful for both, that is always easy. Mine is not.
It is a privilege to have this blog to read, this window into your relationship. You two have some guts, putting yourself all out there like you do.
*happy clapping hands* i’m glad that things are chugging along…
fown
I’m glad things got smoothed out between you two.
You definitely had me worried with that announcement.
WHAT!?!?!?! NO!! Say it isn’t so!!! You mean you actually have real issues and real feelings? Even real problems!?
Don’t you know that this is the internet?? You can fabricate and sugar coat and spin anything any way you want. If I wanted reality I would turn on my tv!
Ok….so enough of my tongue in cheek. Guess that should be tongue in check.
I thought about echoing the sentiments above, “good luck” “good thoughts” all that….and I do wish you both peace and joy in your lives. But see, I am a horribly realistic person. It will work or not work because of the two of you. Not just cause a bunch of people wish it so on your behalf. If knowing that you have support and good thoughts behind you will bolster your ability to shoulder the difficulties, then you bet, I will be right in line (usually elbowing someone along the way).
Instead what I most want to say is thank you. Thank you for having the courage and strength to share your dirty laundry, to show people that this blog is about real people with real lives. Thank you for not being another one of those velcro couples. There are just far too many of those in the world. Lastly, thank you for being so wonderfully sick, twisted, real, loving, sexy, and just being who you two are. Hell, I get a lil education or at least food for thought every single day.
My best to you both.