There are even those who believe that S&M is the only type of consensual sex out there.

It made me sad when women don’t understand that there is more than one type and group them all together.

First of all, I’m in a hurry and dont want to use spellcheck so sorry

I imagine you get a nice little sideways grin going when you post something that is on your mind that you know will provoke equal responses on both sides of the issue

In a way I think you do because you have a strong personality and this is an outlet for you and you like it when people respond to you with their thoughts – maybe if you could respond with a more nuetral answer to the negative as well as the positive vs snarky pissed off answers those who are not posting their names on here would be less provoked to come back. But then again, those who are here to learn may learn from the assholes as well as the followers.

I think the personal attacks from unknown sources are important to keep on here but I think it is equally important for you to not respond to them with anger – it breeds a desire in them to come back and feed you with more of the negativity. Why waste your time on such crap?

This is a place where you write about your thoughts on specific topics or anything you want – keep it that way, post and read comments but they don’t need to be responded to positive or negative. Pick and choose carefully, because if you respond, your acknolwedging them.

Your life is full and happy and I’d much rather see you having make up sex then being hurt by others reactions to your thoughts that you post while your going on your morning walk.

Kisses

Sunni

From my POV, a sensible feminist perspective would be that any person, regardless of gender, should have the right to choose to work within the home, outside the home, or both (some people supposedly do want to do both, though I don’t know any of those… I only know people who do both out of necessity).

In fact I don’t think that’s a feminist view at all. I think it’s an equalist view for a healthy working society. And I guess, in my little pocket of the world, I thought this was a majority view. You choose for yourself, not for other people, how and where you want to work, as best as you can.

“My preference runs my life, and my life only.”
Bingo. This is why I enjoyed the peek into your perspective when shared earlier. I may not have your perspective but it’s still interesting. I wasn’t offended earlier because you took so much time to describe that it was your perspective and preferences. Because of that I really do have a great amount of respect for you and it’s why I enjoy your journal so much.

Interesting points brought up by the articles you quote. I agree. On the same level as men means taking on half the work, not expecting men to pick up the tab for dinner, not having the door opened, ect. As a note to that – because I believe in the equality between genders I’m completely befuddled as to why young women aren’t required to sign up for the draft like young men are. Try telling that to a bunch of radical feminists! I don’t see it as fair to claim equality and get the special treatment.

I do worry about the pressures that have come from the contemporary women’s movement. That women have to be everything – career women, mothers, have all domestic matters under control, and make a relationship work. It’s an impressive load and I’m not sure how many people can really excel in all areas at once, the strain is certainly making itself evident. Oddly enough I can relate as someone who is childfree (no desire to reproduce). My personal choices are used against me to make me seem less a women, lazy, or out of my mind because I don’t want to juggle with the added responsibility. Like somehow I’m letting women down by admitting that I couldn’t do the juggling act, by being honest and saying I can’t “have it all” and be sane at the end of the day. It’s a different perspective on the pressures women are under I think – not even going to go into the ‘submissive to the man in my life’ issue.

The issues most people have with ‘traditional roles’ for women is that it’s been painted as classic oppression. Now-a-days it’s not oppression but a valid lifestyle choice. It’s simple, it’s scary to a lot of people that submission (as opposed to aggression which is valued in our society) is a comfortable and fulfilling option to some of us.

Oh wow, sorry for the ramble. I feel bad for going on so long. Either way, thank you for being brave enough to write these posts and let your readers in.

slave? Hardly! You are the farthest thing from a slave. A cunt, yes. A vile, nasty, immature, woman hating cunt. ((KAYA/TESS AND I ALREADY DISCUSSED THIS. SHE IS A SLAVE, MY KIND OF SLAVE. SHE IS WHAT I WANT AND HOW I WANT HER. MAYBE NOT UP TO YOUR STANDARDS, BUT SHE’S UP TO MINE))

At least Scott’s got his name for you right. ((YES, I THINK HER NAME FITS HER WELL, SHE IS MY CUNT))

Ick. You make me sick. But I like reading you. It’s like a train wreck waiting to happen. I like watching that part a lot, I admit.((SO ARE YOU MALE OR FEMALE, AND SINCE YOU KNOW US SO WELL, WHY DON’T YOU COME AND VISIT US AND TALK TO US IN PERSON AND MAYBE SHOW US HOW IT SHOULD BE DONE.,))

ONE THING THAT I FIND HARD TO SWALLOW AT TIMES IS THAT SOMEONE CAN COME ON HERE, READ THE JOURNAL/BLOG AND MAKE A SNAPPY DECISION THAT WE ARE OR ARE NOT DOING IT RIGHT. THAT I AM OR AM NOT A GOOD MASTER AND SHE IS OR ISN’T A GOOD SLAVE. IF THIS BLOG/JOURNAL WAS A BOOK, IT WOULD BE LIKE THE READERS ONLY GET TO READ MAYBE ONE OR TWO PAGES OF EACH CHAPTER. EACH CHAPTER CONSISTING OF SCORES OF PAGES. AND THAT’S NOT ENOUGH TO MAKE JUDGEMENTS LIKE THIS ONE. ANYWAYS, I AM MADLY DEEPLY TRULY IN LOVE WITH HER.

THE CAPS ARE BEING USED TO SEPARATE THE PREVIOUS COMMENTS WITH MY COMMENTS.

THANKS FOR LISTENING,

S