Q&A
(Some follow-up questions to my answer about voting the other day)
you are engaged in what the vanilla world would term an alternative type relationship, doesn’t the idea of the tea party mentality, right wing groups scare the living shit out of you? While I fully recognize liberals may not come right out and endorse the lifestyle and kinks we all choose, I fear the right wing will certainly curb/limit/destroy our freedom to express it, Blogs, businesses like yours could at some point very well be a target for a witch hunt. Spank-fest no more!
It doesn’t scare me, or him. What it is that we do doesn’t have to be expressed publicly. If the ability to do so was taken away, we’d keep doing what we’ve been doing quietly in our home. The blogs, munches, Spankfest- those are just perks. Not a necessity.
The people willing to fight for it to keep that perk have my utmost admiration and respect. I’m just not one of them. Whether he will ever be one of them I can’t say. What his reaction might be to feeling “threatened” by a witch hunt… I don’t know. Maybe he’ll regret his apathetic political stance, maybe not.
there is a distinct movement afoot, and so when you said that Scott didn’t think there was anyone worth voting for, and they may very well be, but I can promise you there are people worth voting AGAINST.
All I can say is that Master is, at this point and time, very jaded and cynical with the whole political system. Whether I agree with it or not, like it or not, the decision to change it or remain this way is his to make.
At the moment, I’m glad that he’s not making me vote and not using my vote as his second vote. Because on the occasion that we discuss political issues, we tend to not agree on too much. I’d rather not vote for anyone than vote for someone who I just don’t agree with.
I know you are in a Master/Slave relationship, he owns you, literally, but some how in my mind that never extended to voting.
That’s not unusual. This isn’t the first time voting has come up as a topic and you aren’t the first one to think ownership either shouldn’t, or didn’t, include that right.
But it does. For us anyway.
As an American living abroad and watching people struggle for democracy, for the right to vote, I have to say it made my ass twitch. And I want to encourage both of you to protect your freedom of speech, expression, get out and vote!
Part of that freedom, disagreeable as it may be, is the freedom to not participate. If participation is expected, or even required, it’s no longer a freedom.
Kinda reminds of the women’s lib thang. Give women the rights they deserve, but look down on them if they don’t use them. *shrug*
Are you bi? Curious? Experimented? Do tell.
I thought I was gay for awhile. I had a relationship with a girl for a couple of years at the end of, and just out of, high school. I wrote about it here.
I’ve had a couple of interactions with women since then. Nothing anywhere near that serious or exclusive, but 3-somes, things of that nature.
I love women. I love breasts and soft, kissable lips. I love the smooth skin and the fleshy, flowing curves of a woman’s body. I love the way they smell and taste and how amazing it is to curl up against a women and caress that silky softness, losing myself in shared sensations.
But- three things:
I equally love the hard, angular roughness of a man’s body. The contrast is hot.
I crave the kind of sex I have with a man more than a woman. The natural brutality of it, the clashing of bodies. “Scissoring” just doesn’t have that same energy (nor do toys).
And lastly, power and control are essential to my life and women simply do not inspire that in me. Not that women can’t be mean because when it comes to s&m I think women are meaner than men. But s&m is a whole separate entity to power.
I used to describe myself as bisexual. But I’m not sure if that’s accurate anymore. Over time with Master I seem to be losing the attraction I once felt so strongly for women. Not that he’s encouraged that loss, mind. He’s red-blooded perverted male and would like nothing more than to watch some girl-on-girl action.
I think it’s just that my sexuality is so intrinsically tied up with power and control these days. The only time I even crave a women is when there is a power-slant put on the fantasy. If I envision her as a second dominant (which isn’t a far-fetched fantasy, btw. That’s something Master has talked about) or if Master’s ordered it, is forcing me.
I would still thoroughly enjoy having more experiences with women, provided that Master was also involved, even if she were on equal status as me. That scenario is just not something I crave as I used to.
Which is a great lead-in to the next question:
Does your master allow/force you to have sex with other men/women? If so do you enjoy it?
He has not yet. He almost certainly will force it (or not even have to force so much as just point. hee.) with a woman in the future, and he might likely force it with another man (that one would be force, for sure. By “force” I mean he’ll say do it and I’ll do it. I think sometimes people think of force as a more hands-on, standing over me with a whip kind of thing when it’s typically a matter of him simply giving the order and me knowing the consequences of not obeying. Maybe it works that way for everyone though. *shrug*)
Don’t know if I’ll enjoy it. Possibly not entirely at the time (with a man anyway), but very likely when it’s over. I seem to work that way.
You might be able to answer this one…but the comments on a kink-friendly dentist to remove your toofers has me wondering just how big IS he?
You know he’s going to biff me upside the head, probably with his monster-cock, if I get this wrong, right? ;-)
I’ve been meaning to ask him for a precise measurement, but srsly, he’s swamped at work and I’m stressed to the max at home. We’re lucky to get a good night kiss in these days. Yesterday, he left at 5am and didn’t get home until 9pm. This morning, he left at 4am. I’m srsly having Master-withdrawals.
So, I’m going from what I think I know. And I have some photographic evidence. *beams* (I just like looking at it, to be honest. Y’all are just gonna have to scroll real fast or share in my delight of OMGPENIS!)
Lengthwise, he’s somewhere between 8 and 9 inches, erect. If he’s bigger than that, when he reads this, he’ll certainly correct me. Hard, I hope. With his penis. I hope.
Circumference is harder for me to guess. I know that if he lays his cock on my forearm, width-wise, he’s as wide as my wrist. That’s about 2.5 inches wide. So I’d guess circumference to be 5.5 to 6? 6.5?
Now I’m all hot to be measuring.
Here are some pics. I took these off my fet profile.
This is as far as I get when my teeth start to really dig in. If he wants it in all the way, he’s got to put on his masochist hat. Though he denies being a masochist, he shoves it in often enough that I don’t believe him.

This one is ass-meets-dick. I think fisting by a small woman would hurt less. (Not that that’s an invitation to try!)

This one in relation to the size of my head makes me giggle. Plus, I just really like the look of his dick. Isn’t it purty??

And this one I think really captures just how much it’s totally NOT going to fit in my mouth. Remove teeth, unhinge the lower jaw and maybe we’ll talk. Well, I won’t be talking, if you know what I mean. Giggity.
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